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Today's Fabulous feature is
Michelle, from
Her Cup Overfloweth.I met her when she was featured over at my bloggy friend,
Meaghans site. I was so touched by Michelle's story that I had to share it on my site.
In January of 2006 I was diagnosed with Stage I Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma, which is a fancy word for uterine cancer. I had a low grade version of this extremely rare cancer a
nd at 28, almost 29 years old, I was blown away by my diagnosis. It was stage one, yes...It certainly was not the end of the world, I was thankful to be alive, I did not have to have chemo or radiation and in what seemed like a whirlwind of events, I was diagnosed, treated and given the blessing of "no evidence of disease". What I haven't told you in this story is that at 29, I had a total abdominal hysterectomy. This meant they took everything-ovaries, tubes, uterus. It also meant that I would be enjoying premature menopause.
With a 2 year old a
nd 1 year old, there was little time to stop and contemplate what it all meant.
The last three years have made me continually thankful for my two precious children. For you see, had my husband and I waited to have children-they might not exist. I was pregnant with my daughter 3 months after getting married and pregnant with my son 7 months after my daughter was born. I was diagnosed with cancer when my son was 9 months old........I am deeply deeply thankful for my two little blessings. Cancer survivors and those in the midst of battle often say they are thankful for each day they are alive. It's not just some pithy saying...they say it because it's true.
How did you tell you family and friends?Well, My
uterine cancer made itself known to me in the form of severe bleeding and my gynecologist discovered a fibroid that was attached to my uterine wall. Fibroids are usually benign, so there was very little cause for worry. Two weeks after the fibroid was removed I got "the call". I can remember speaking with my doctor at 7pm in the evening over the phone and him telling me I had endometrial stromal
sarcoma. My husband was right next to me and after I got off the phone he just held me while I cried. I then called my parents and my husband called his parents. I couldn't be the one to tell people after that. It was really hard and I didn't want to have to endure all the questions (most of which I did not know the answers to yet). My kids are still so little (they were only around 2 and 10 months old when I was diagnosed and treated)...we have told them I had "owies in my tummy", but eventually we will tell them more.
Does your family have a history of Uterine Cancer?No. My birth mother did have cervical cancer...but I was told the kind she had was Stage I and not hereditary. And my particular cancer is
extremely rare. While Uterine Cancers make up a significant portion of all Gynecologic Cancers, ESS is diagnosed in only 3% of those cases.
What was your life like before cancer?I was just your average stay-at-home mom. I had two little ones and my husband and I were just trying to get by financially. Life only stopped for a short while for me...I had two small children to take care of and I needed to get back to taking care of them. That may have helped me heal faster!
What brought/ is bringing you hope during the scary times?My
faith in God has been the only source of hope during the tough times. I tried for a long time to do it "my way" and it turns out that trusting God completely with my illness has brought the
truest healing. After my
hysterectomy, for two years I had to get check ups and CT scans to make sure the cancer hadn't recurred. And let me tell you, that waiting game is no fun! But, ultimately, whether or not my cancer ever comes back, my hope is in heaven, not in this flawed thing called my body.
How has cancer changed your life?Well, the most obvious way is that I can no longer have children, but I am so grateful to God for the incredible gift in the two he already gave me and having cancer has given me a renewed heart for adoption. The aftermath of a cancer survivor's life is something not many people talk about. Even though I no longer have ESS, there are still struggles I deal with. Having a total abdominal hysterectomy induces early menopause. Because my cancer is estrogen driven, I cannot be on any kind of
hormone replacement therapy for that menopause. Let me just tell you - not fun! But if having menopause means I'm healed, then so be it. Having cancer has also made me grateful for each day I am alive, each day more I get to spend with my sweet children and loving husband! On a day to day level, however, my life hasn't changed much- I just got right back on that "horse" called life!
How has it changed your relationship between you and your family and friends?That's a tough one. I am not sure I can see specifically where things have changed. I try to work on my relationships in light of my cancer (sort of a "live like you were dying" philosophy). But, I 'm not perfect! :) My marriage has probably suffered the most - It's hard to feel young and sexy and desirable when you have the hormones of a sixty year old menopausal woman! But mostly I am just thankful for the chance to be with him and the rest of my wonderful family. I am still here and that must mean God's not finished with me yet!
To read more about Michelle visit
her blog.For more information about Uterine Cancer and screenings visit
this site.